Appeal by plaintiff from orders entered 17 November 2006 and
20 December 2006 by Judge Joseph Moody Buckner in Orange County
District Court. Heard in the Court of Appeals 11 October 2007.
Lewis, Anderson, Phillips & Hinkle, PLLC, by Susan H. Lewis
and Brian C. Johnston, for plaintiff-appellant.
Northen Blue, L.L.P., by Carol J. Holcomb and Samantha H.
Cabe, for defendant-appellee.
Wyrick Robbins Yates & Ponton LLP, by K. Edward Greene and
Tobias S. Hampson, for amicus curiae Elizabeth MacLean.
GEER, Judge.
Plaintiff Sue Ellen Estroff appeals from the district court's
17 November 2006 order dismissing her claim for joint custody of
two children born to her former domestic partner, defendant Srobona
Tublu Chatterjee. This appeal is resolved by the principles set
forth in our opinion filed this same date in Mason v. Dwinnell, 190
N.C. App. __, __ S.E.2d __ (2008).
As in many custody cases, the struggling of adults over
children raises concern regarding the consequences of the rulings
for the children involved. Our General Assembly acted on this
concern by mandating that disputes over custody be resolved solely
by application of the "best interest of the child" standard. See
N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-13.2(a) (2007). Nevertheless, our federal and
state constitutions, as construed by the United States and North
Carolina Supreme Courts, do not allow this standard to be used asbetween a legal parent and a third party unless the evidence
establishes that the legal parent acted in a manner inconsistent
with his or her constitutionally-protected status as a parent.
(See footnote 1)
See Price v. Howard, 346 N.C. 68, 484 S.E.2d 528 (1997). No litmus
test or set of factors can determine whether this standard has been
met. Instead, the legal parent's "conduct would, of course, need
to be viewed on a case-by-case basis . . . ." Id. at 83, 484
S.E.2d at 537.
In this case, we hold that the trial court was entitled to
conclude, based on the evidence presented at trial and its findings
of fact, that Chatterjee did not engage in conduct inconsistent
with her constitutionally-protected status. As a result, we affirm
the trial court's order dismissing Estroff's custody action.
Facts
The custody dispute in this case arises from the relationship
between Estroff and Chatterjee, who were domestic partners for
approximately eight years. The trial court made the following
findings of fact.
Estroff is a university professor and Chatterjee is a medical
doctor. The two met when Chatterjee, a graduate student at the
time, took a seminar taught by Estroff. After Chatterjee completed
the seminar, the two women entered into an intimate relationship.
At the time the relationship began, Estroff was 44 years old and
Chatterjee was 30. The women lived together from June 1996 until January 2003.
In May 1997, the couple bought a house together. Prior to the
purchase of the residence, Estroff and Chatterjee signed an
agreement establishing each person's rights and responsibilities
with respect to the residence and identifying each individual's
personal property. Simultaneously, each woman signed a document
appointing the other as her attorney-in-fact. Estroff executed a
health care power of attorney naming Chatterjee as her attorney-in-
fact; Chatterjee did not do the same. Although they never
discussed having a commitment ceremony, the two women identified
themselves as a couple, and it was well-known by their families and
select friends that the women were in an intimate relationship.
In 1997, Chatterjee, who was then 32, decided that she wanted
to conceive a child. Estroff had previously chosen not to have
children herself. When Chatterjee asked whether Estroff had any
objection, Estroff responded that because it was Chatterjee's body,
it was her choice. As the trial court phrased it, "[u]ltimately,
[Estroff] agreed that [Chatterjee] could raise a child within the
context of their relationship and in their jointly owned home."
Chatterjee first asked a long-time friend to be the sperm
donor because it was important to her that her child know and have
a relationship with his or her biological father. When the friend
declined, Chatterjee decided to use an anonymous sperm donor from
a particular sperm bank. While family and friends helped
Chatterjee review several profiles, Chatterjee ultimately chose the
donor. Among her reasons for selecting the particular donor wasthe donor's willingness to meet any child when he or she became an
adult.
A joint credit card for the couple paid for the purchase of
the sperm. Estroff also went to medical appointments with a
reproductive specialist and with an obstetrician for pre-natal
care. Estroff learned how to perform the artificial insemination
and did so when Chatterjee's physician could not.
After a miscarriage, Chatterjee became pregnant in September
2000 with twins. When Chatterjee was required to go on bed rest in
March 2001, her mother came to stay with her and became her primary
caretaker. During this time, Chatterjee began to feel concerned
about her relationship with Estroff. Estroff, however, announced
to her colleagues and friends that Chatterjee was going to have
twins and that they would be raising the children together. The
trial court found that Chatterjee never made similar pronouncements
to her colleagues and was uncomfortable when Estroff did so.
Nonetheless, Chatterjee did not express her objections or feelings
to Estroff.
Before the twins' birth, Estroff requested and Chatterjee
agreed to give the children Estroff's last name as their middle
names. When it came time for the twins to be born, Estroff and
Chatterjee's mother both accompanied Chatterjee to the hospital.
Estroff was in the delivery room when the children were born and
held them before Chatterjee did. When, however, hospital staff
referred to Estroff as the other "mom," Chatterjee objected toEstroff's being called a "mom," and, as a result, Estroff asked the
staff to stop referring to her as a "mom."
Because the children were born prematurely, they required
around-the-clock care. When they first came home from the
hospital, both Chatterjee's mother and Estroff helped Chatterjee
care for the twins. After Chatterjee's mother left, Estroff and
Chatterjee shared the daily care of the children. In addition, in
the early days, Estroff's family came to help care for the
children.
Estroff took the children to university events and held the
children out as her own. Estroff helped financially support and
care for the children. The women jointly interviewed applicants
for a nanny and decided who to hire. Chatterjee, however, reminded
Estroff that Estroff was not the mother of the children and that
Chatterjee was and always would be their only mother.
In early 2002, Chatterjee finally decided to terminate her
relationship with Estroff and began looking for a separate
residence. After moving to a new house in January 2003,
approximately 18 months after the birth of the twins, Chatterjee
worked with a parental coach to develop a structured schedule so
that the children were in Estroff's custody approximately half of
every week. According to the trial court's findings, "[i]t was
[Chatterjee's] intent to gradually reduce the time the children
would spend with [Estroff] as they became settled and at ease in
their new home." In the spring of 2005, Chatterjee told Estroff that she would
no longer be allowed to spend time with the twins more than one
night a week. In response, on 26 May 2005, Estroff sued seeking
joint custody, recognition of her parental status, and
reinstatement of the original visitation schedule. Chatterjee
subsequently moved to dismiss for lack of standing and failure to
state a claim. The trial court denied the motion to dismiss in a
3 August 2005 order. Beginning on 17 April 2006, the trial court
held a two-week trial and ultimately dismissed Estroff's claims.
The trial court entered its order on 17 November 2006. With
respect to Estroff's status, the trial court found:
While [Estroff] has played a unique and
special role in the lives of [Chatterjee's]
children, she is neither a biological nor an
adoptive parent of [the twins]. [Estroff] is
not a "parent by estoppel" nor a "de facto
parent". There was never a legal nor
contractual written or verbal agreement
between [Estroff] and [Chatterjee] that
[Estroff] was a parent, custodian or legal
guardian. Moreover, [Estroff] and
[Chatterjee] never discussed entering into a
parenting or custodial agreement or filing a
friendly lawsuit to attempt to formally
provide [Estroff] with parental or custodial
rights. [Chatterjee] never would have agreed
to such a request if it had been made by
[Estroff]. [Chatterjee] would never have
agreed to bestow on [Estroff] or anyone else
any parental or custodial rights with regard
to her children.
With respect to Chatterjee, the trial court found that she had "not
conveyed or relinquished custody or parental status to [Estroff] by
her conduct and/or by her actions."
The court then concluded that "[Chatterjee], as the biological
parent of [the twins] has a constitutionally-protected right to thecare, custody, and control of her children under the Fourteenth
Amendment to the Constitution of the United States." Further,
according to the trial court, "[Estroff] has failed to establish by
clear and convincing evidence that [Chatterjee] has engaged in
conduct inconsistent with her constitutionally-protected status as
a parent or otherwise forfeited her constitutionally-protected
status as a parent."
On 27 November 2006, Estroff filed a motion for a new trial
and/or relief from the judgment. That motion primarily argued that
a new trial was warranted based on misconduct by Chatterjee.
According to the motion, although Chatterjee had "repeatedly and
consistently represent[ed] to the Court throughout the proceedings
until June 5, 2006 that she would never cut off contact between the
Minor Children and [Estroff], [she] cut off all contact between the
Minor Children and [Estroff]" once the trial court indicated it was
dismissing the case. The trial court denied the motion in an order
filed 20 December 2006. Estroff timely appealed from both the 17
November 2006 order and the 20 December 2006 order.
Discussion
Estroff primarily challenges the trial court's ultimate
determination, pursuant to
Price v. Howard, 346 N.C. 68, 484 S.E.2d
528 (1997), that Chatterjee did not engage in conduct inconsistent
with her constitutionally-protected status as a parent. As we
recognized in
Mason,
Price holds that the General Assembly's "bestinterest of the child" standard, N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-13.2(a), has
constitutional limitations. 190 N.C. App. at __, __ S.E.2d at __.
Our Supreme Court determined in
Price that in a custody dispute
between a legal parent and a third party, the following test
applies in determining whether the "best interest of the child"
standard governs:
[T]he parent may no longer enjoy a paramount
status if his or her conduct is inconsistent
with this presumption [that he or she will act
in the best interest of the child] or if he or
she fails to shoulder the responsibilities
that are attendant to rearing a child. If a
natural parent's conduct has not been
inconsistent with his or her constitutionally
protected status, application of the "best
interest of the child" standard in a custody
dispute with a nonparent would offend the Due
Process Clause.
346 N.C. at 79, 484 S.E.2d at 534. When a trial court finds
conduct inconsistent with the parent's constitutionally-protected
status, "custody should be determined by the 'best interest of the
child' test mandated by statute."
Id., 484 S.E.2d at 535.
This determination must be based on clear, cogent, and
convincing evidence.
Adams v. Tessener, 354 N.C. 57, 63, 550
S.E.2d 499, 503 (2001). Under our standard of review of custody
proceedings, "the trial court's findings of fact are conclusive on
appeal if there is evidence to support them, even though the
evidence might sustain findings to the contrary."
Owenby v. Young,
357 N.C. 142, 147, 579 S.E.2d 264, 268 (2003). Whether these
findings support the trial court's conclusions of law is reviewable
de novo.
Hall v. Hall, 188 N.C. App. 527__, __, 655 S.E.2d 901,
904 (2008).
I
[1] As an initial matter, Estroff contends that the trial
court erred as a matter of law, when applying the
Price test, by
basing its determination in part on Chatterjee's "intentions" as to
Estroff's role in the children's lives. According to Estroff, in
making the determination mandated by
Price, courts should apply the
"well settled" principle of civil legal responsibility "that it is
not a party's intention that controls whether he is to be held
legally accountable, but his conduct and the reasonably foreseeable
consequences of his conduct." This case is not, however, a
contract or tort action, but rather involves a legal parent's
"constitutionally protected paramount interest in the
companionship, custody, care, and control of his or her child."
Price, 346 N.C. at 79, 484 S.E.2d at 534.
Estroff further argues, however, that
Price supports her view
that only manifested intentions are relevant. She asserts that, in
Price, "the Supreme Court held that the mother needed to have made
it clear at the time she left the child with the Plaintiff that the
placement was temporary." (Emphasis omitted.) We disagree with
Estroff's reading of
Price. To the contrary, the Court noted that
the biological mother "
chose to rear the child in a family unit
with plaintiff being the child's
de facto father."
Id. at 83, 484
S.E.2d at 537 (emphasis added). "Choice" is a volitional factor
that necessarily incorporates a person's intent.
In addition, although the mother in
Price had relinquished
custody to the plaintiff for a period of time, the Court observedthat the testimony was disputed "whether defendant's voluntary
relinquishment of custody to plaintiff was intended to be
temporary or indefinite and whether she informed plaintiff and the
child that the relinquishment of custody was temporary."
Id.
Thus, both conduct and intent are relevant. The language
referenced by Estroff stated that if a parent finds it necessary to
relinquish custody of his or her child to a third party, "to
preserve the constitutional protection of parental interests in
such a situation, the parent should notify the custodian upon
relinquishment of custody that the relinquishment is temporary . .
. ."
Id. This recommendation _ in effect, setting out the better
practice for parents _ does not require that only conduct and
manifested intentions be considered.
In our decision in
Mason, we held that the specific question
to be answered in cases such as this one is: "Did the legal parent
act inconsistently with her fundamental right to custody, care, and
control of her child and her right to make decisions concerning the
care, custody, and control of that child?"
Mason, 190 N.C. App. at
__, __ S.E.2d at __. We believe that in answering this question,
it is appropriate to consider the legal parent's intentions
regarding the relationship between his or her child and the third
party during the time that relationship was being formed and
perpetuated.
Indeed, in
Mason, we pointed out that the trial court had
found that the legal parent and her domestic partner had
"intentionally" taken steps to identify Mason as a parent of thechild and that the legal parent "intended that [the] parent-like
relationship [between her partner and child] be a permanent
relationship for her child."
Id. at __, __ S.E.2d at __. We also
concluded that the trial court properly considered a parenting
agreement executed by the couple because it "constitute[d]
admissions by [the legal parent] regarding her intentions and
conduct in creating a permanent parent-like relationship between
[her partner] and her biological child."
Id. at __, __ S.E.2d at
__.
Our analysis of the trial court's findings of fact stressed:
While this case does not involve the
biological mother's leaving the child in the
care of a third person, we still have the
circumstances of [the mother's]
intentionally
creating a family unit composed of herself,
her child and, to use the Supreme Court's
words, a "
de facto parent." [
Price, 346 N.C.
at 83, 484 S.E.2d at 537]. . . . Even though
[the mother] did not completely relinquish
custody, she fully shared it with [her
partner], including sharing decision-making,
caretaking, and financial responsibilities for
the child. And, in contrast to
Price, the
findings establish that [the mother]
intended
_ during the creation of this family unit _
that this parent-like relationship would be
permanent, such that she "induced [her partner
and the child] to allow that family unit to
flourish in a relationship of love and duty
with no expectations that it would be
terminated."
Id. [at 83, 484 S.E.2d at 537.]
Id. at __, __ S.E.2d at __ (emphasis added). We concluded that
once a parent chooses to forego as to a third party his or her
constitutionally-protected parental rights, he or she "cannot now
assert those rights in order to unilaterally alter the relationshipbetween her child and the person whom she transformed into a
parent."
Id. at __, __ S.E.2d at __.
Thus, as
Mason holds, the court's focus must be on whether the
legal parent has voluntarily chosen to create a family unit and to
cede to the third party a sufficiently significant amount of
parental responsibility and decision-making authority to create a
permanent parent-like relationship with his or her child.
Id. at
__, __ S.E.2d at __. The parent's intentions regarding that
relationship are necessarily relevant to that inquiry. By looking
at both the legal parent's conduct and his or her intentions, we
ensure that the situation is not one in which the third party has
assumed a parent-like status on his or her own without that being
the goal of the legal parent.
In
V.C. v. M.J.B., 163 N.J. 200, 224, 748 A.2d 539, 552,
cert.
denied, 531 U.S. 926, 148 L. Ed. 2d 243, 121 S. Ct. 302 (2000), the
New Jersey Supreme Court applied an analysis similar to that in
Mason in concluding that a third party may be entitled to custody
if "the legal parent ceded over to the third party a measure of
parental authority and autonomy and granted to that third party
rights and duties vis-a-vis the child that the third party's status
would not otherwise warrant." With respect to this determination,
the court concluded that "the intent of the legally recognized
parent is critical."
Id.
We agree with the New Jersey Supreme Court that the focus
must, however, be on the legal parent's "intent during the
formation and pendency of the parent-child relationship" betweenthe third party and the child.
Id. Intentions after the ending of
the relationship between the parties are not relevant because "the
right of the legal parent '[does] not extend to erasing a
relationship between her partner and her child which she
voluntarily created and actively fostered simply because after the
party's separation she regretted having done so.'"
Id. at 224-25,
748 A.2d at 552 (quoting
J.A.L. v. E.P.H., 453 Pa. Super. 78, 92-
93, 682 A.2d 1314, 1322 (1996)).
Estroff also complains that the sole evidence to support the
trial court findings of fact regarding Chatterjee's intentions was
Chatterjee's own testimony and that none of those intentions were
disclosed to Estroff. Our authority does not, however, require
that the intentions be disclosed to the third party, although if
they were, it might make resolution of the
Price issue easier, as
Price pointed out. Estroff's emphasis on the harm to her from the
lack of disclosure _ including her concerns about Chatterjee's
deceit towards her and Chatterjee's "us[ing]" her _ reflects
Estroff's mistaken belief that principles of civil liability should
be imported into the custody context. Estroff's approach implies
that she has rights and has suffered harm, but harm to the third
party is immaterial to the standard set forth in
Price and further
discussed in
Mason.
Estroff also argues that "there is ample evidence to
contradict [Chatterjee's] statements of her intentions . . . ."
Even if so, such evidence simply presented questions of credibility
and weight for the trial court to resolve.
Phelps v. Phelps, 337N.C. 344, 357, 446 S.E.2d 17, 25 (1994). We, therefore, hold that
the trial court properly considered Chatterjee's intentions at the
various stages prior to her decision to terminate her relationship
with Estroff. It was for the trial court to decide the credibility
of current expressions of the mother's past intent in light of the
mother's actual conduct. We cannot revisit those credibility
determinations on appeal.
II
[2] Estroff next argues that the trial court's determination
that she failed to meet her burden of proof under
Price is not
supported by the evidence, citing testimony and exhibits that she
asserts warrant a ruling in her favor. Findings of fact are,
however, binding on appeal _ regardless of the sufficiency of the
evidence _ unless assigned as error.
Koufman v. Koufman, 330 N.C.
93, 98, 408 S.E.2d 729, 731 (1991) ("Where no exception is taken to
a finding of fact by the trial court, the finding is presumed to be
supported by competent evidence and is binding on appeal.").
Although Estroff did assign error to a number of findings of fact,
many of those assignments of error were not then argued in her
appellate brief. Her objections to those findings are, therefore,
deemed abandoned. N.C.R. App. P. 28(b)(6) ("Assignments of error
not set out in the appellant's brief, or in support of which no
reason or argument is stated or authority cited, will be taken as
abandoned.").
Estroff does argue in her brief that no evidence supports the
trial court's finding that "[Estroff] agreed that [Chatterjee]could raise a child within the context of their relationship and in
their jointly owned home." While Estroff urges that this finding
"attributes to [Estroff]
her agreement to view [Chatterjee] as a
single parent," we cannot accept that construction of the court's
finding. We believe a more reasonable reading of the finding is
that it was intended to convey that although the couple did not
make a joint decision to have a child, Estroff did not object to
Chatterjee's raising the child while the women continued to have a
relationship. The evidence may not explicitly support this
finding, but it is a reasonable inference from the evidence as to
Chatterjee's conversations with Estroff regarding Chatterjee's
decision to have a child. The trial court is entitled to draw all
reasonable inferences from the evidence.
NationsBank of North
Carolina v. Baines, 116 N.C. App. 263, 269, 447 S.E.2d 812, 815
(1994) (holding that trial court decides what reasonable inferences
may be drawn from the evidence, and appellate court may not
substitute its view for that of the trial court).
Estroff next challenges findings of fact that actually appear
favorable to her. Finding of fact 22 states that "[Chatterjee]
needed [Estroff's] help and depended on it." Finding of fact 24
states: "[Chatterjee] was grateful for [Estroff's] presence and her
help in the care of the children." Third, finding of fact 33
states: "[Estroff] supported [Chatterjee] in many ways both before
and during the pregnancy." Estroff's argument as to these findings
is based on her belief that the trial court was portraying Estroff
as only a "handmaiden" and "helper" to Chatterjee rather than ajoint caretaker of the children. We do not believe this is a
necessary inference from the findings; nor is such an inference
consistent with other findings of the trial court.
Finally, Estroff objects to the trial court's findings of fact
that (1) Estroff was not a parent by estoppel or a
de facto parent,
(2) Chatterjee had not voluntarily relinquished custody of her
children, and (3) Chatterjee had not conveyed or relinquished
custody or parenthood status to Estroff by her conduct or her
actions. Estroff argues only that these assertions are in fact
conclusions of law. While the first statement may be a conclusion
of law, we believe the other two are mixed questions of law and
fact. In any event, Estroff has not argued how she was harmed by
any mislabeling of these findings.
See In re Faircloth, 153 N.C.
App. 565, 569, 571 S.E.2d 65, 68 (2002) (deeming the mislabeling of
findings of fact and conclusions of law "not fatal" to the trial
court's order).
Thus, Estroff has not demonstrated that any of the trial
court's findings of fact were unsupported by competent evidence.
Those findings are, therefore, binding on appeal. The question
remains whether the findings are sufficient to support the trial
court's conclusion that Estroff failed to establish that Chatterjee
engaged in behavior inconsistent with her constitutionally-
protected status as a parent.
Estroff lists in her brief eight findings that she contends
were necessary in order to reach the trial court's conclusion, but
were not made. Estroff argues that in order to rule in favor ofChatterjee, the trial court was required to find the following: (1)
that there was no parent-child bond, (2) that the children were not
attached to Estroff, (3) that Estroff was not involved in
performing parent-like duties and responsibilities with the
children, (4) that Estroff did not provide substantial financial
support and caretaking for the children, (5) that Estroff was not
viewed as a co-parent by family and friends, (6) that Estroff was
not seen by the children as one of their parents, (7) that
Chatterjee had not engaged in "any conduct inconsistent with her
claim to exclusive control of the children," and (8) that Estroff
was not viewed as a co-parent by professionals and medical
providers. Estroff then argues that "[t]here were no such findings
because they could not have been made. The evidence was
overwhelmingly to the contrary."
We pointed out in
Mason that
Price "declined to specify the
universe of conduct that would 'constitute conduct inconsistent
with the protected status parents may enjoy,' but rather directed
that a parent's conduct 'be viewed on a case-by-case basis.'"
Mason, 190 N.C. App. at __, __ S.E.2d at __ (quoting
Price, 346
N.C. at 79, 484 S.E.2d at 534). There is thus no specific set of
factors that must be found or analyzed in order for the standard in
Price and
Mason to be met. While the factors identified by Estroff
may be relevant to the question required to be answered by
Price
and
Mason, their absence from the trial court's order in this case
does not require reversal. Here, the trial court's findings establish that Chatterjee did
not jointly decide with Estroff to create a family, but rather made
the decision on her own and asked only if Estroff had any objection
to sharing her home with children. Chatterjee chose the sperm
donor herself based on her desire that the donor be willing to meet
the children when they became adults. According to the trial
court's findings of fact, Chatterjee _ in contrast to Estroff _ did
not announce to others that the couple was going to raise the twins
together. Then, after the twins were born and while the couple
lived together, Chatterjee objected to Estroff's being called the
children's "mom" and reminded Estroff "that [Estroff] was not the
mother of the children; that she, [Chatterjee,] was and always
would be their only mother." Finally, as the trial court found,
the parties never entered into any written or verbal agreement that
Estroff was a parent, custodian, or legal guardian. Indeed, the
couple never discussed entering into a parenting or custodial
agreement or taking other action to provide Estroff with parental
or custodial rights.
The trial court's findings reflect that Chatterjee did not
choose to create a family unit with two parents, did not intend
that Estroff would be a "
de facto parent,"
Price, 346 N.C. at 83,
484 S.E.2d at 537, and did not allow Estroff to function fully as
a parent. Instead, according to the trial court's findings,
Chatterjee saw Estroff as "a significant, loving adult caretaker
but not as a parent." As the trial court found, this role wasmodeled on the roles of adults to which Chatterjee was accustomed
as a result of her Indian upbringing.
Consistent with that role, the trial court found that Estroff
assisted in the care of the children, financially supported the
children, and joined with Chatterjee in interviewing and hiring the
children's nanny. Contrary to Estroff's contention, these facts do
not preclude the trial court's ultimate determination in
Chatterjee's favor. The fact that a third party provides
caretaking and financial support, engages in parent-like duties and
responsibilities, and has a substantial bond with the children does
not necessarily meet the requirements of
Price and
Mason. Those
factors could exist just as equally for a person such as the
plaintiff in
Mason (who was found to have met the standard in
Price) as for a step-parent or simply a significant friend of the
family, who might not meet the
Price standard.
These facts establish the existence of a relationship "in the
nature of a parent and child relationship" and are sufficient to
support a finding of standing to bring a custody action.
Ellison
v. Ramos, 130 N.C. App. 389, 394, 502 S.E.2d 891, 894,
appeal
dismissed and disc. review denied, 349 N.C. 356, 517 S.E.2d 891
(1998). But, simply because a person has the necessary
relationship for standing purposes does not establish without more
that the requirements of
Price have been met. In
Seyboth v.
Seyboth, 147 N.C. App. 63, 68, 554 S.E.2d 378, 382 (2001), this
Court stressed: "Regardless of the compelling and significant
relationship between the stepfather and ex-stepchild in the case
sub judice, the trial court could not grant the stepfather
visitation solely based on the best interest analysis." Further
evidence and findings _ beyond just the parent-like relationship
and strong parent-child bond between the stepfather and child _
were necessary to comply with the standard in
Price.
Id. at 68-69,
554 S.E.2d at 382.
(See footnote 2)
As the Pennsylvania Supreme Court has stated, "[w]hat is
relevant . . . is the method by which the third party gained
authority" to assume a parent-like status and perform parental
duties.
T.B. v. L.R.M., 567 Pa. 222, 232, 786 A.2d 913, 919
(2001). Thus, the focus is not on what others thought of the
couple or what responsibility Estroff elected to assume, but rather
whether Chatterjee "cho[se] to cede to [Estroff] a sufficiently
significant amount of parental responsibility and decision-making
authority to create a permanent parent-like relationship with her
child."
Mason, 190 N.C. App. at __, __ S.E.2d at __.
The trial court's findings of fact _ although made without
benefit of our opinion in
Mason _ essentially decide that
Chatterjee did not choose to do so.
The findings are, therefore,sufficient to support the trial court's determination that Estroff
did not establish that Chatterjee engaged in conduct inconsistent
with her paramount constitutionally-protected status.
Compare id.
at __, __ S.E.2d at __ (holding
Price standard met when couple
jointly decided to create family; intentionally acted to identify
third party as parent (through multiple means); mother repeatedly
identified partner publicly as child's parent; mother stipulated
that couple and child lived together as family unit; mother shared
her decision-making authority as to child with partner; mother
signed medical power of attorney allowing partner to participate in
child's medical decisions; and mother entered into parenting
agreement providing that partner was a
de facto parent and setting
out provisions for continued custody by partner if couple's
relationship ended).
III
[3] Finally, Estroff argues that the trial court erred in
concluding that she was neither a parent by estoppel nor a
de facto
parent because the court failed to make the necessary findings of
fact to support that conclusion. We need not address this argument
since those doctrines, as adopted in other states, have not yet
been recognized in North Carolina and are not appropriately
considered in this appeal.
During the oral argument in this case, Estroff's counsel
represented that her client was not seeking parental status, but
rather was only seeking visitation. Our Supreme Court has set out
in
Price the standard, under the federal and state constitutions,for determining whether a third party is entitled to custody,
including visitation. This Court, in light of
Price and subsequent
Supreme Court decisions following
Price, does not have authority to
adopt a different standard as to custody.
See Seyboth, 147 N.C.
App. at 68, 554 S.E.2d at 382 (declining to adopt approach towards
stepparents employed in other states because "[o]ur case law as
enunciated in
Peterson and refined in
Price . . . is very clear").
Accordingly, we affirm the trial court's order of 17 November
2006.
(See footnote 3)
Affirmed.
Judges BRYANT and STEELMAN concur.
Footnote: 1